Nowadays, it’s not uncommon to hear stories about how couples split up because of dull and boring sex. Sometimes, it seems like it’s all we hear. Partners get bored with the same old stuff while having intercourse. Luckily, there are many ways you can change that.
From trying out role-playing to employing sex toys, there’s a whole world of kink and naughtiness that can help spark your love life once again. And seeing how we’re becoming more and more open to various fetishes, maybe it’s time you and your partner try something completely different.
Yes, we’re talking pegging. Female to male anal sex action can make a big difference in both your sexual experiences. But before we continue to ramble on, let’s go into detail about reversing booty play.
What Is Pegging Exactly?
Namely, pegging is a form of sexual activity that involves a man receiving anal sex from his female partner. The woman has a strap-on dildo between her legs and penetrates her male companion, reversing the traditional gender roles. Of course, this form of sexual play can work for lesbian couples too, but the term pegging is mostly in use for hetero couples.
Some couples enjoy switching their roles, thus changing the power dynamics of their relationship. You see, sexual acts that involve penetration are often seen as male dominant, but when a woman pegs a man, it’s quite the opposite. But this form of anal pleasure isn’t all about the old switcheroo. There’s more to it.
Just like women have the oh-so-famous G-spot, men have the prostate. Although not quite the same, it helps guys reach an unbelievable orgasm. It’s located near the rectal canal, meaning that penetrating the male anus will translate into stimulating the prostate itself. Therefore, it’s easy to understand why so many guys get off while their lover pegs them from behind.
Pegging is also great if linked with BDSM, especially the dominance and submission part of it. For those guys who love to be submissive, there’s nothing more thrilling than having their dom fuck their brains out.
Introducing Pegging to Your Partner
We always say that communication is the foundation of any successful relationship. No matter how much you love each other, sharing is the only real way to go about your partner. Therefore, introducing new ideas to your bedroom shouldn’t be a problem if you talk about everything you go through openly. And if you’re not, it’s about damn time you start sharing ideas and feelings.
But once pegging is concerned, it’s key you mention your sexual orientation hasn’t changed. Most guys believe their ladies will think they’re gay if they want to experience anal sex. And we get that. Men aren’t comfortable when their sexuality is in question, but pegging hasn’t got anything to do with that.
Doggy style on your hubby is great for both of you. The man gets to experience something completely different, while his female gets to enjoy being “in control.” Reversing roles while in the bedroom shouldn’t be that taboo. After all, kinks are meant to provide us with something we don’t have in everyday life. Know how to make doggy style sex feel better.
Sex and relationships are sometimes complicated. Therefore, using something like pegging to expand your horizons can only benefit your current love life.
How to Make Pegging Fun
So, in case you’re looking to give pegging a try, you should consider options to make it even more exciting than pure lunging and pounding. After all, the act of anal sex is art. And as such, you shouldn’t go for it all guns blazing. Thinking about how it’s going to play out should always be on your list. Here’s a couple of ideas you can use.
Firstly, using water-based lube is a must for anyone trying out anal. No matter if you’re going for pegging or not, using a lubricant will make sure you don’t regret the idea of booty play once and for all. Your rectal canal isn’t the same as a vagina (no kidding!), and to penetrate it, you must prepare it first. Lubrication will make sure there’s enough fluid around and in it that the foreign object can nicely slip inside.
On the other hand, starting slowly and going step by step should be a priority. Using an oversized silicone dong isn’t for beginners. You should try something small (walnut-sized) at first to make sure the anus relaxes. A combination of a smaller strap-on and lube will help your first experience be a quality and safe one.
Furthermore, thinking of pegging as a role-playing mode can also help set the perfect atmosphere for your optimal enjoyment. Not only will you take it more seriously, but both of you will wish to repeat it as soon as possible. Making the women dominant is a big fetish for tons of guys. Also, on the other hand, girls love to feel the power as much as men. Therefore, pegging is a perfect way of achieving both.
Anal Aftercare
The aftermath of anal can be a painful experience if not done the right way. Therefore, you should always think about safety before you start pounding someone’s booty. Hygiene-related health problems often go hand-in-hand with pegging if you’re not careful enough. So, let’s talk a bit about safety and aftercare, shall we?
After you’ve agreed to try it out, the man should have an enema. Yup, cleaning your rectal canal is key to having a safe and best possible anal session. As we’re sure you know, your anus is not exactly the cleanest of places. Hence, cleaning dirt and remains of poop is a must before putting anything “where the sun don’t shine.”
In case you overestimated your anal capabilities, there’s a good chance some damage might occur inside your anal canal. If that happens, you shouldn’t hesitate and visit a doctor immediately. There’s no shame in telling your doc what you’ve been up to. Think of it as being better safe than sorry.
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But if there’s no serious damage down there, but you’re still not comfortable sitting down, take time to relax and lie on your bed. Take a shower, and the water will help your body relieve some pain. You can also use some medical products meant for pain relief if the pain becomes too much for you to bear.
